Daily D – Esther 6:6
So Haman came in, and the king said, “What should I do to honor a man who truly pleases me?” Haman thought to himself, “Whom would the king wish to honor more than me?” ESTHER 6:6 (NLT)
What Haman said here is almost always the wrong thing to think or to say. Come to think of it, I am not sure there are exceptions to this rule. That’s an idea worth keeping in mind.
A certain high school senior was the Honorary Rotarian for the month. That meant he got to leave campus and go to lunch with the Rotary Club in his hometown. He was introduced before the business owners and operators. His host read the list of his honors earned during his high school career.
He wrapped up his introduction by talking about how impressive all those credentials were and what a bright future this young man had. The student was asked to stand and be recognized. He received applause and turned a bright shade of red with embarrassment.
I have been introduced several times across the years to one crowd or another. Here’s what I figured out along the way: There are not many people in the room, whatever room it is, who are all that impressed. One curmudgeon actually said, “I don’t care how much you know or what you did somewhere else. What are you going to do for us?”
A couple of years ago, I was asked to speak before a group that does amazing work around the world. The host said, “I’m not going to introduce you. I’m going to ask you some questions and your answers will serve as your introduction.”
He asked about my job, my family, and my hobbies. I remembered Haman’s example. I did the opposite. I talked about my amazing coworkers, my wonderful wife, my outstanding family, and the high privilege of standing before a group that changes the world for the better every day.
This would be the only time I ever interacted with most of the people in that room. What I had accomplished in the past meant nothing to them. What they needed was my best in that moment to help them step into their next opportunity to serve. The attention properly belonged to them.
Haman’s example is a wonderful reminder that it is not all about us. Nothing we accomplish in life is all our own doing. Anything significant we achieve is a result of teamwork. The wisest thing we can do when receiving an award or an honor is to declare who made it possible.
Come to think of it, now is as good a time as any to make some calls and write some notes and thank those people who made it possible for you to be where you are and to do what you do. This might take a while.
Read on in this chapter and you see Haman got to give someone a pony ride in the king’s robes. He got to shout that man’s praises. Who will you give a pony ride in royal robes with loud declarations?
I will focus my best attention on others.
Our Father, please forgive me for thinking I am the center of the universe. You alone are worthy of that focus. Thank you for the wonderful people you have placed in my life. Nothing I have, nothing I will ever achieve is possible apart from the gifts of your grace that they are. Make me the man I need to become who elevates others. Use me to build up the people around me so they may live lives of maximum expression that honor you and serve others. Amen.
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1 Samuel 24:16, 17 When David finished saying these things to him, Saul replied, “Is that your voice, David my son?” Then Saul wept aloud and said to David, “You are more righteous than I, for you have done what is good to me though I have done what is evil to you.” (CSB)
1 Samuel 18:5 David marched out with the army and was successful in everything Saul sent him to do. Saul put him in command of the fighting men, which pleased all the people and Saul’s servants as well. (CSB)
1 Samuel 13:13, 14 Samuel said to Saul, “You have been foolish. You have not kept the command the LORD your God gave you. It was at this time that the LORD would have permanently established your reign over Israel, but now your reign will not endure. The LORD has found a man after his own heart, and the LORD has appointed him as ruler over his people, because you have not done what the LORD commanded.” (CSB)