Daily D – Psalm 4:4
Be angry and do not sin; reflect in your heart while you are on your bed and be silent.
PSALM 4:4 (CSB)
Don’t sin by letting anger control you.
Think about it overnight and remain silent.
(New Living Translation)
Complain if you must, but don’t lash out.
Keep your mouth shut, and let your heart do the talking.
I may have sinned yesterday afternoon. Frustration boiled up and maybe a little over. We make our home in one of the most technologically advanced places on earth. However, all of the wonderful advancements have skipped our neighborhood.
For fourteen years we have lived here in this nice home in our nice neighborhood in a nice community. The nice internet services all the other neighborhoods around us have available to them are completely unavailable to our neighborhood. The only option we have had for lo this decade and a half is DSL. DSL was State of the Art in the year 2000.
Working from home the last year and a half has proven that DSL is in no way up to the demands of supplying the necessary bandwidth for Zoom calls and all-day productivity. On its best days, the bright red light would glow on the router notifying us that it required a bit of a rest before going back to trickling tiny bits and bytes into our home.
After much research and not a little frustration, we discovered how wifi hotspots could amplify our meager coverage. This works well until you run through a month’s worth of capacity in less than a week and have to wait three more weeks for it to work again.
We tried a very expensive small business arrangement. It worked about as well as the DSL. So, if we are going to have to put up with DSL speeds, we might as well go back to DSL and its lower price. So, we called our beloved internet and telephone provider and asked to be moved back to our old unreliable friend DSL.
We were informed that once we gave up on DSL, we could not go back. Neither could we go forward with the hip and cool new fiber internet. Only the surrounding neighborhoods can get that. When I asked what our options were I was told, “You do not have internet.”
So, if you are still following this lengthy rant, you can rightly guess that this is the inflection point when I moved toward anger. There is good news here. I did not say bad words. I did not yell at the service representative. I did mention to my bride that no positive vibes remained toward that company. We will no longer do business with them. Of course, they decided they will no longer do business with us, so I guess it breaks even.
How do you handle those moments that cause anger to flare?
1. Be angry and do not sin. Let your anger guide you toward a positive, beneficial solution and not a destructive or hurtful one.
2. Do not let anger control you. Keep your peace even though you would rather rage.
3. Complain if you must, but don’t lash out. Lashing out compounds problems.
4. Let your heart do the talking and not your head. Your heart is full of empathy and sympathy. Your head is full of arguments.
I made this somewhat redundant list because I need to remember it when I talk to the communications company that is too big to service our small neighborhood. I need this list when I talk to a person on the telephone from that company who had nothing to do with the company’s decision to thumb their nose at me.
Today you will most likely have an opportunity to get ticked off. Be angry and do not sin. Do not let anger control you. Complain if you must, but don’t lash out. Let your heart do the talking and not your head. Feel free to remind me of this from time to time. I am still working on it myself.
I will control my angry impulses.
Our Father, you created anger to move us toward righting wrongs. Our adversary uses anger to wound. Deliver us from sinful anger. Empower us to use righteous anger to right wrongs. Amen.
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Genesis 26:26-31 Meanwhile, Abimelek had come to him from Gerar, with Ahuzzath his personal adviser and Phicol the commander of his forces. 27 Isaac asked them, “Why have you come to me, since you were hostile to me and sent me away?”
28 They answered, “We saw clearly that the LORD was with you; so we said, ‘There ought to be a sworn agreement between us’—between us and you. Let us make a treaty with you 29 that you will do us no harm, just as we did not harm you but always treated you well and sent you away peacefully. And now you are blessed by the LORD.”
30 Isaac then made a feast for them, and they ate and drank. 31 Early the next morning the men swore an oath to each other. Then Isaac sent them on their way, and they went away peacefully.
Genesis 22:13, 14 Abraham looked up and there in a thicket he saw a ram caught by its horns. He went over and took the ram and sacrificed it as a burnt offering instead of his son. 14 So Abraham called that place The LORD Will Provide. And to this day it is said, “On the mountain of the LORD it will be provided.
Genesis 21:1-3 Now the LORD was gracious to Sarah as he had said, and the LORD did for Sarah what he had promised. 2 Sarah became pregnant and bore a son to Abraham in his old age, at the very time God had promised him. 3 Abraham gave the name Isaac to the son Sarah bore him.
Genesis 17:1 When Abram was ninety-nine years old, the LORD appeared to him and said, “I am God Almighty; walk before me faithfully and be blameless.
Genesis 6:9 This is the account of Noah and his family.
Noah was a righteous man, blameless among the people of his time, and he walked faithfully with God.